In an age that is fast-paced as it is today, the family rarely do activities together, even for breakfast or dinner. Can happen because parents are too preoccupied with his work, or deals with children who are too busy with school and extracurricular activities. Whereas togethers with family is very important to do. With the gathering of the family gives a positive energy among each other. At least a day we can take the time to gather together though only an hour, so that we can mutually know our child development school or other activities.
Find free time to gather with the
family is indeed a challenge. But that does not mean you or your husband can't
get it. The following six tips to improve Your quality time with your family.
3. Breakfast Together
1. Install A Calendar
Install a big calendar on the
refrigerator or place that is often impassable and easier to see the whole
family. Write your plan on the calendar. For example, on a trip to an amusement
park in the holiday, plan a dinner together at the family's favorite restaurant
or visiting Grandma's House. Write with a marker or a big marker so that family
members can see it. In doing so, then everyone will adjust the schedule of
their activities so that you and your family can gather together. It's good You
write a little description of the events, such as, ' exploring the thousand
islands ' or ' Hollycow Steak barbeque party for next week's ' to make it more
interesting.
2.
Take a Productive Together
Despite this less than ideal way, but
can try applied. If you and your spouse are quite busy with work all year and
it's hard to find time together, why not try to do productive activities
together? For example when the husband had to meet a client for playing tennis,
you can take the kids to watch his father in action on the field. Or when a
family gathering at the Office, try to take the time You and the kids to go
along to the event so that your family can still be productive work at once
gathered together.
3. Breakfast Together
If your family is ' spread ' at night,
try to wake up early to have breakfast together. No need to prepare an
elaborate meal, simply provide a sandwich with milk or cereal with juice. Just
need a little time to prepare for it all and you can gather with your family to
just chat or chat. What's more, breakfast is the most important meal time in
order to play to the maximum. If we had got together with the children at the
dinner table do not lazy to remind the positive things toward the child, it is
also a psychological effect on the child who will do the Sulzer so careful in
doing something
4.Reduce the time watching TV
TV entertainment is indeed quite
popular and acceptable to almost everyone. Even according to the Nielsen
survey, people in America can spend 154 hours a month to watch TV. If you want
to get closer with your family, try to reduce the hours watching TV and expand
time to chat along with partner or your children. Then your bond with them will
be closer, if you're a family that likes to watch, see the impressions that are
beneficial for the family
especially could give a useful thing
for a child
5. Set Sunday night as a time for family
Sunday night is usually used to prepare
next week's activities. Try to finish your homework before Sunday afternoon,
and notify all family members to do the same. So on Sunday night, Your family
can gather to just play cards, watch a DVD while eating popcorn, or tell you
about the activities of the week yesterday. Arrange night activities your week
with events that are not boring for your family.
6. Flexible and spontaneous
Plan on watching movies or vacation
together sounds very exciting indeed. But what about when all of a sudden the
whole family gathered in one day and you don't have a plan what-what? Without
thinking, create impromptu activities. Cook dinner together or outside can be a
spontaneous fun activities. Not necessarily this incident could recur in the
next months right? Then your flexibility is highly expected that togetherness
within the family remain entwined.
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