Having a child that is the wish of all
parents. And also a uta must have a desire to become his son's child dutifully
and useful for others. But do you know if the child will develop into a good
depends on the parents, because the parents are a child's first teacher. The
child
will mencotoh the behavior and habits
of their parents. It recorded since the child was born from the womb of a
mother. For that the habits and behavior of the elderly better controlled
against the child.
The development of educational
institutions oriented to materialize the virtuous man, intelligent, and ethical
and faith and piety into something seductive for parents. The emergence of the
consciousness of parents toward children's education is a form of current
developments towards the better. However, often the elderly have forgotten its
responsibility as an educator
Parents who had left the child at
school or religious-based character education often relinquish their
responsibilities to the school. With hope, after graduating from the school,
his son grew into a perfect man. In fact, education is not only formed in an
environment of sekolahall only, but rather a family education has an important
role in shaping the personality of the child. The process of education parents
against children is the basic and most important factor in the process of the
formation of character.
Parents who are able to educate her
children properly, will produce individuals who are good at maturity. As a
parent, you have a responsibility to the future of your children. Therefore,
You need to know the following things in educating children.
1. BE CONSISTENT
Children always want to know new things
are still foreign to him and asks for a lot of things to you. As a parent, you
have to be consistent against your answer. Never be fickle parents when a child
answers the question posed repeatedly. This is important and will be emulated
by a child to apply dilingkunganya so that the child becomes confident in
mencapaikan opinion
2. SET THE LIMIT
The limitations here can be either
physical protection or regulations against child. According to Jim Cunningham,
a writer, research the influence of guardrail playgrounds in schools against
children
When the fence removed, kids tend to be anxious and feel insecure in the play. When the next day the fence back in pairs, children feel secure again and play
freely in the Park. From this we can take the example of the child desperately
wants to be protected, but don't because we want to protect our rights to steal
them in play. Just as the physical protection, in the hearts of children also
felt did not want to live in a world without borders. Kids want their parents
to set a limit to protect, nurture and guide her to become an adult.
3. DO NOT FORCE THE CHILD TO BE LIKE YOURSELF
Often parents assume that Childs is a
smaller version of himself. Parents tend to treat his son in accordance with
what it wants, while still a child.
When your child is certainly different
to You when young because of different generations and the environment also
affects the nature of the child. Hope the parents usually only leads to
disappointment because it doesn't fit with your shadow. This can cause the load
against the child, may be within the child trying to hear and try to follow the
pilot's parents. But if it is not successful children become devastated and
became its own load for him
4. ENCOURAGE POSITIVE BEHAVIORS IN CHILDREN
Parents should look for tau good things
and not on the children. Then you need to encourage positive behavior by way of
giving praise and so on. If they do have a negative do not directly attack our
children and rebuked him, ask first why our children are doing so.
5.
GIVE a LITTLE PUNISHMENT AGAINST CHILDREN ERRORS
If the child made a mistake once or
twice, you need only menasehatinya only and tell the right thing. But if the
error keeps repeating, you can give a little bit of a positive nature of
punishment such as reducing hours play outside.
This will make your child re-thinking
to do the same mistakes.
6. DO NOT IMPACT THE GAP BETWEEN BOTH PARENTS
If mom and dad say no to say yes, the
children will tend to be closer to the father because it is getting what it
wants. Parents must agree in teaching and educating children.
The goal is to make the created
stability in the family. This may be difficult if the child is confronted in a
situation of divorce, but for the sake of the children both parents should put
aside differences and like-minded.
7.
KEEP YOUR BEHAVIOR
Children tend to follow the behavior of
the parents. If you lie, cheat, steal, injure, or even make lifestyle choices
that are not healthy, children tend to think that it's okay if it does the same
thing with his parents.
8.
BE FLEXIBLE
Most parents only know two methods to
educate their children, that subtle way (advised) or rough way (snap, punish).
The child is not flexible you guess, because eventually they could
predict what action will be performed his parents when they do not behave well.
9.
SUPPORT THE THEY GOALS
The goals of the child become
President, mountaineers or background dancers maysound strange to you. However,
laugh at their desire does not bring any positive impact.
Wise parents are parents whose tireless
support in children, whatever their ideals. Your support will assist the child
in finding a purpose to her life and her abilities are hidden.
10.
APPRECIATES the OPINIONS/CHILD OPTIONS
You already know that children have a
mistaken about something. However, you cannot change the wrong view of it with
a big upset against the child.
If you want to listen to you, then
listen to them first. Follow your child's story, give opinions and point towards
a child's opinion could be useful with the opinion of the child. If we as
parents do not agree with the opinion of the child try to equate the perception
with the child, perhaps with it makes the children not minder with her own
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